Tuesday, May 10, 2005
silver liningwell. when you've hit rock bottom, i guess there's no other direction to go but up. hehe. things are looking up and i'm feeling wholly better right now. several issues have been straightened out and i feel really relieved about it all.
thanks. =) means a lot to me.
singled outsee, i'm supposed to have this date or whatever you call it with someone on thursday and it made me think a lot about teenage dating. for example,
what consititutes a date? when do you call a simple occasion wherein two people hang out and have a good time.. a date? and why is it that when you're a teenager, you never really call it 'dating'? are we all so shy or negative about the idea of going on a date? o baka hindi lang talaga uso sa pilipinas ang term na "date"?
ewan. when i started this topic, i thought i could be all "carrie-from-sex-and-the-city-but-a-guy"-like but then suddenly, i can't analyze nor give my thoughts about anything.
ooh, here are some things. when it comes to dating, for me at least, it's always good to break away from the conventional ways. break away from the crappy usual movie/coffee/dinner/lunch date that everyone usually goes through. do different things. go paintballoon fighting. go go-karting. go have a picnic. cook for each other. go commute-tripping and go around the metro on the MRT/LRT and on buses/jeepneys. hell, go skydiving at clark-field [shit, dream date].
but to me, the best type of date is just hanging out, steady at one place and talking. staying at home is great. you spend nothing, no disturbance, and it just seems like you've got all the time in the world. and that's one of the ebst feelings dating can offer. those five-minute moments that you wish you could just freeze till forever. hahaha.
anyway, i believe that dating should be as casual as possible. tension should be the first thing to be eliminated. and dates shouldn't be "career-ed". haha. though most of the time creative and thought out, sometimes, a bit of spontaneity makes the date a lot more fun. sponaneity makes a great date actually. go out having nothing planned and see where your feet take you. astig. hahahaha.
anyway, that's all. just wanted to share my thoughts. any of you have YOUR thoughts? hahaha. prove me wrong. come on, what do i know anyway? hahahahaha.
the adventure ended at 11:13 PM
